I was at a coaching conference/retreat a couple of weeks ago in Rocky Mountain National Park, quite a nice setting for the occasion. There were several interesting seminars: one addressed how to interweave coaching with experiences in nature, and another focused on designing a home office setting conducive to the work we do. What I appreciated the most, though, was time to connect with other coaches – some I already knew and some I hadn’t met before – but also the time outdoors in nature. I wasn’t checking my phone all that much, and I barely looked at a screen all weekend. It was a lovely – and needed – break.
It’s hard to ignore how quickly our world is changing. Artificial intelligence (AI), smartphones, digital platforms, and new technologies are transforming the way we work, communicate, learn, and live. While these advances can offer exciting possibilities, they can also leave us feeling overwhelmed, uncertain, or apprehensive when it comes to what’s next. Recently there have even been some scary stories about AI taking over our worlds, or worse.
So how are we to adapt to this new world in a healthy and balanced way? I offer these thoughts:
1. Be willing to adopt a mindset of curiosity, not fear.
We don’t have to understand every new technology or jump on every trend. Instead, approach change with curiosity. Ask questions, explore new tools at your own pace, and focus on learning what is genuinely useful to you. You don’t have to master everything to benefit from something new.
2. Let technology expand your abilities, not replace your judgment.
AI can help us generate ideas, organize information, solve problems, and learn new skills. But it isn’t infallible. Information can be inaccurate, incomplete, or biased. Use technology as a tool to support your thinking, not as a substitute for it. Our ability to question, evaluate, and make thoughtful decisions remains essential.
3. Protect what makes you human.
In a world increasingly shaped by screens and algorithms, human connection matters more than ever. Make time for face-to-face conversations, meaningful relationships, physical activity, enjoying the natural world and other experiences that bring you joy. Empathy, creativity, wisdom, and genuine connection are not things we should neglect in our pursuit of efficiency.
4. Give yourself permission to slow down.
You don’t need to keep up with every development or be available around the clock. Set boundaries around screen time, take breaks from the constant flow of information, and make room for reflection. Being informed is valuable, but being perpetually plugged in can come at a cost. I recently disabled all notifications from my phone because I was finding them too distracting, and the result has been more peace in my day.
5. Focus on what you can control.
We cannot predict every technological change, but we can choose how we respond. We can remain open to learning, strengthen our critical-thinking skills, nurture our relationships, and make intentional decisions about how technology fits into our lives. The goal shouldn’t be to resist progress or jump on every new bandwagon. It’s to find a thoughtful balance.
As we navigate this rapidly changing world, perhaps one principle is worth remembering: Let AI expand your thinking but it shouldn’t replace it.
I would love to hear any thoughts you have on this very timely and important topic. Thanks as always for reading.

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